1. A private assessment
A short, confidential questionnaire about your values, lifestyle, relationship history and what you are looking for. It takes around five minutes and helps both sides judge whether matchmaking is right for you.
2. The consultation
A real conversation with your matchmaker. This is where nuance appears: what attracted you in the past, what wore you down, which differences you enjoy and which you cannot live with.
3. Your brief
Your matchmaker writes down who you are and who you are looking for. You read it, correct it and approve it. It becomes the compass for your search.
4. The search
Your matchmaker considers existing members and actively recruits new candidates who fit your brief. Every candidate goes through a candidate review and screening process before they are ever mentioned to you.
5. The introduction
When someone genuinely fits, you receive a considered introduction: who they are, why your matchmaker believes you would connect, and what you have in common. If you both say yes, details are shared and the first date is arranged.
6. The first date
A relaxed meeting, often a drink or a lunch, chosen to make conversation easy. There is no pressure and no script: just two people who have both said they want to meet.
7. Feedback
Afterwards your matchmaker speaks with each of you privately. What worked, what didn't, what you noticed about yourself. That honesty is what makes the next introduction better than the last.
How long does it take?
Every search is different. Some people meet someone wonderful early; for others it takes longer to find the right person. A good matchmaker will tell you honestly how your search is going and never rush you into an introduction that doesn't fit.
